One of the most amazing experiences I've ever had is sitting down with someone I didn't really know and being able to talk about anything and everything and knowing that the understand me.
The most important thing for women in a relationship is having someone to talk to, the most important hing for men (sex aside) is knowing that the other understands them. One of the most common phrases on myspace and social sites is "lets chat" and one of the biggest causes of depression and suicide is lack of communication with the patient.
of What is it about this world that makes people want to talk so much? What is the importance communication. Aside from being the glue for societies, it is one of the most essential ingredients to our sanity. A person cannot survive without talking to anyone.
It seems amazing that in this age of communication the biggest thing troubling people is the lack of it. I'm not going to join the party of anti-technologist stating that technology is the source of all evil. I must admit that the Internet does encourage the cultural trend of people talking more than they listen, but that is simply inevitable. This problem has existed for a long time. But it modern times it had become more pronounced.
The Internet has brought many different cliques of people together bridging geographical gaps throughout the world. But it has also created a new territory where many thousands of people to roam, aimlessly, looking for an answer to their personal questions.
Many of us probably looked up at the world, hoping that someone, even a stranger, would come to us and talk with us. But what we are really looking for is someone who can also understand. Because when we do talk to strangers we do not suddenly open up and talk about everything, we are socially inapt to do that. What we are looking for is someone who can listen and understand how we feel, someone who wouldn't ask too many question, but not ask too few.

One of the greatest gifts you can ever give to another is simply listening, no judgments involved. It is amazing how much gratitude you can get from this. Don't worry about your own opinions, once you've given someone the gift of paying attention to them they will be immensely grateful to you, so grateful that they will try to return the favor as best they can. If you get into the habit of listening to other people, giving them a shoulder to lean on even of they don' have an explicit reason, you will always get a shoulder in return.

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This reminds me of something I did here in Israel in a few Love festivals (if you can call it that). There was this one guy, a bit freaky but friendly non the less, who was having an angel walking. An angel walking is an amazing experience where everyone lines up in two rows facing each other, and then every one in their turn walks down the middle while being pat or hugged or even kissed by anyone who wants.
After the angel walking my mind was still phased out and I wanted more, so me and the guy walked around a bit with a "free hug" sign and got another good round of hugs. Amazing experience, you could almost see the love running around like some forest fire.

We should have such a thing for our next Zaangha day! Every Zaadster can write a sign saying "free hug" and go out on the street in his local neighborhood and spread the love. And then in all the big cities we can have a public angel walk in public parks and stuff! Spread the word and help make it happen!

This YouTube series I've been following has resently been picked up by the Sci Fi channel. This series is hillerious and original and holds a lot of potential, expect to see it at home soon!

This article, aside from being in my usual politically incorrect fashion, contains matters which will probably (and hopefully) encourage some rage in the eyes of the readers, especially here at zaadz. Please don't get offended, but do take this to heart.

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This is to all you parents out there, all the people who had the joy of raising children. This is to all you who grew up with brother and sisters and other siblings. And this is to you who grew up as single children (and there are very few of you, which is part of the problem). ll of you, my readers, no doubt know that in every family children fight. Brothers and sister pull each other's hair, kick and scream, mark their territory, fight over toys and TV and go to great lengths to dominate one another. I am still at odds with my siblings, although no clear reason can be put forward.
Of course we are all familiar with the phrases "but he started it!" followed by "leave each other alone!" I doubt any of us grew up without hearing those a thousand times a day.

More and more are we becoming aware that our generation of men has been raised by a generation of feminist mothers. The feminist movement of the sixties promoted female rights and aligned women with the status of men, nothing wrong with that. But the consequence is that we are a whole generation of mama's boys.
The feminist and hippie movement, flower children and their spin offs, tell us that a world without violence is a world of peace. That it is better to turn down a fight than get hurt. Furthermore, we are being cuddled by medicine for every possible ache and pain.Since we were kids when we fall down we are told that it's alright and were comforted till the pain went away.

We are a generation of weaklings! we no longer know how to stand up for what is ours! Our mothers raised us to be nice to everyone and put others first. Our fathers showed us only that we need to be nice to women, that girls should expect things from men.

Population levels are ever increasing, as medication and lack of natural predators give humans a much better chance of survival. Our ancient code of morals dictate that we must help the weak at strive for equality. This is a clear conflict with natural selection.
When was the last time you were in a fight? When was the last time you stood up for you're self and risked actually getting hurt?
Children fight for a reason. Have you ever seen puppies fighting? Kittens play around with each other to build coordination and combat skills. Children fight because they need to learn how to survive, how to compete for a goal and how to win it. The toy is not the prize, it is the lesson learned. The most important class in our lives is being deprived from us simply because it is no longer ethical for us to learn to use violence (both verbal and physical), we never learn to stand up to ourselves, we never learn that it is ok to get hurt! The parents job is not to prevent kids from falling, neither is it to help them get up. The parent's job is to help the kid learn how not to fall again!

With the earth's population rising uncontrollably and irrationality along with it I think it is time that we relearn our survival skills. We are headed towards catastrophe. Global, massive catastrophe. This isn't a crazy prophecy of Armageddon, this is plain and simple science. It is evolution at it's plainest.
Letting go of possession with nothing left on the outside, you are forced to look inside. And it is inside you where you can find your true power. It is only after you have lost everything that you can find everything. We have forgotten what it means to be a man, what it means to stand up for ourselves even if it means getting physical about it. It is only those who find it that have a chance of living, all the rest are already dead.

I spent the last weekend at the "Genesis" festival up north on the rocky beaches of the Kineret (the same puddle Jesus supposedly walked across during one dreadful drought that left it dry). Hell of a time, music, dancing, girls, meditations and lots of booths with soothsayers and alternative healers. Definitely a place for a Zaadzster.
I gave a short speech there, I think my audience liked it as people kept coming up to me afterwords and asking me questions. I think I made an impression on those who listened.

I also had fun with some Jews and Christians there. Both religions set up big tents with attractions such as food and good company, and were working hard at converting the young minds of the festival to follow their twisted path. It wasn't too hard to get into a theological argument with them, at it quickly caught fire. No doubt they still are bent upon their shaky beliefs, but perhaps I seeded enough doubt in their minds to make them grow and understand and become enlightened of their ways.

In the next few days I'll be working hard to give you More articles of enlightenment.